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Ditch the dating apps.

Actually meet, in person.

Upcoming events
Ready to flirt IRL? Join our Singles Events 💋💞 Because real connection starts offline. The Singles Event isn’t just a night out — it’s a chance to meet someone who gets you. 💞

The Singles Events

About Us:

Because chemistry doesn’t happen through a screen.
Delete the dating apps (or at least mute them).
wiink is here to bring back the thrill of meeting someone, without algorithms, awkward bios, or ghosting.
We create unforgettable singles events that are flirty, fun, and unapologetically intentional.
wiink started because we missed the magic of in-person connection.
Let’s be real: dating apps feel like work. Endless small talk. Left, right, ghost. Repeat.
At wiink, we bring people together in spaces where they can actually feel something.
We’re flirty. We’re fun. We’re intentional.
And we believe that chemistry can’t be downloaded.
You don’t need a clever opening line. Just show up, be you, and let the rest unfold.

Flirt-Imonials
“Melissa is an amazing host. I walked in, and she made me feel comfortable immediately.” – Sophie
“I went to other single events that felt commercialized. Melissa brought a real, magical experience.” – Thabo
“I made a whole lot of friends. We formed a group afterwards and now we just hang out sometimes.” – Lara
“Melissa is fantastic. She really knows what she’s doing.” – Jared
“Such a fun and lively experience – exactly what Cape Town singles need!” – Imani

Singles Events: The FAQ You Were Too Shy to Ask

Is it ok to rock up solo? +
Absolutely. In fact, it’s kind of the point. Think of it as showing up single, not alone. And trust us—walking in solo is basically your first flirty power move of the night.
What if I don’t vibe with anyone? +
Then you vibe with yourself, baby. Worst case? You sip something tasty, have a laugh, maybe discover your new favorite cocktail. That’s still better than another night scrolling.
What’s the dress code? +
Hot-but-make-it-effortless. If you’d wear it to impress your crush and still be able to sit, sip, and flirt comfortably—you nailed it.
Are you gonna make me play awkward games? +
No trust falls, no name tags shaped like hearts, promise. We keep the ice-breaking fun, cheeky, and as painless as possible. (More “oops we locked eyes” than “charades with strangers.”)
What if I end up liking the bartender more than the singles? +
Join the club. Bartenders are dangerously charming. Shoot your shot—but remember, they’re paid to flirt. (Still counts as practice.)
Can I bring a wingwoman/wingman? +
Yes, bring your hype squad. Just remember, we design these nights so you won’t actually need them
 but it’s cute if you want backup.
What if I’m shy? +
Good. Shy is sexy. Plus, we make the vibe warm enough that even introverts feel like social butterflies after one drink.
What if I meet my ex? +
Plot twist! If that happens, just pretend you’re thriving (because you are), grab a different cutie’s attention, and voilà—revenge glow-up complete.
What if nobody talks to me? +
They will. But if not, come find the host—we’ll personally throw you into the most interesting convo in the room. You won’t be wallpaper, promise.
Is this like speed dating? +
Only if speed dating drank tequila, got a glow-up, and decided to stop being awkward. Think less ticking clocks, more magnetic chats.
Contact Info

Got a question, an idea, or just want to say hi? We’d love to hear from you, whether it’s about upcoming events, group bookings, collabs, or love stories that started at Wiink (yes, we definitely want those). We don’t bite (unless there’s pizza involved).

Partnerships & Collabs

Want to host a Wiink night at your venue? A brand match made in heaven? Let’s talk, we’re always open to co-creating magic.

Email Us: uhadme@wiink.co.za

Call Us: 062 298 8605

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